Healthy Relationships

Hasn’t the way we date and relate to each other changed significantly over the last few decades? I’m convinced that the “dating” mechanism needs to be re-written to accommodate for the changing times and changing needs of relationships. Many people are now prepared to go to the far reaches of the earth in search of [...]

3 Steps To Knowing Who’s Right For You – finding the right one! Step 1…First, write down all the qualities you’d like to find in a partner. Write down as many as you can think of. Don’t make judgements about what you are writing – just be completely honest with yourself. Keep writing until you [...]

You, or your beloved can (and probably will) be attracted to other people while you are co-creating a relationship together. Feel the attraction to others, don’t deny it or close down your heart, then turn the energy towards YOUR BELOVED and share with them what you are experiencing. That demonstrates real commitment, allowing the relationship [...]

Please tell us HOW a man can make you light up and smile? How could he do that in ways that would make you feel special, loved, cherished and adored? I understand that many women these days don’t like to admit that they need men at all – we are capable of doing almost everything [...]

What would you say are the MOST IMPORTANT things you need from a woman? How could she give them to you in ways that would make you feel accepted, appreciated and empowered? According to Tony Robbins (and many other men who attend his seminars), women have this illusion that men JUST want SEX from us [...]

The most profound short film I’ve ever seen? Do you ever remember feeling really good when someone paid you a compliment? What about when someone praised you for doing a good job? Have you ever felt better when someone understood where you were coming from? Well it works the opposite way around too. Watch this [...]

This cool list of “advice for a happy life” was received in one of those annoying chain emails…but it’s value is priceless and well worth sharing. I wonder what other words of wisdom you have to add to these gems. My list is below. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. Marry [...]

Each Year He Sent Her Roses, and the note would always say, I love you even more this year, than last year on this day. My love for you will always grow, with every passing year.’ She knew this was the last time that the roses would appear. She thought, he ordered roses in advance [...]

We all have our own ideas on what makes a successful relationship. I had quite a lot of experience in my younger years, but I still like to listen to the advice other people give. This definition of an intimate relationship by Dr. Haritt Lerner (Dance of Intimacy) seems to resonate with me…I wonder what [...]

What we do to another, we do to ourselves. Have you heard that being said? That means if we treat people badly, we are also mistreating ourselves. But, the opposite is also true. When we make people feel good, happy, loved, cherished, uplifted and when we help others, we are also helping ourselves. We feel [...]